By Carla Poole, Susan A. Miller, EdD, and Ellen Booth
Church
Do you think empathy can be taught as early as
birth? According to the authors; Carla Poole, Susan A. Miler,EdD,
and Ellen Booth Church, in their article called, “Empathy”, the answer is
yes. The writers share their research on the importance of teaching
empathy at a very young age. Poole, Miller, and Booth break up their
findings into stages; ranging from infants 0-2 months old to children 5- 6
years of age. According to their research even newborns can start to
learn empathy just by how a parent responds to their baby’s cries. As a
toddler reaches ages three to four years old, they learn compassion by modeling
and mimicking their caregivers. Then, by ages five and six their
vocabulary skills are more advanced. They
are now able to process and convey their feelings and emotions to others.
Also, they start to pick up on other people’s feelings by observing their facial
expressions, body language, and mannerisms. Poole,
Miler EdD, and Church believe that,”by modeling and encouraging empathy, Kindergartners will become compassionate members of a caring community”.
In this article the writers really place a
huge emphasis on how important “Empathy” is in young children. They believe that it can be taught as early
as infancy. Infants learn how to self
sooth themselves when their caregiver’s first response to a fussy baby; is their
voice. However, if the baby persists to fuss, a
gentle caress from the parent’s hand, along with the soothing sound of their voice, should help to console the little one. Finally, in the event that your child continues to fret, you would then pick the baby up and hold him/her in the crook of your arms, to calm them down. I have seen
this work time and time again while working in the infant rooms at my first
place of employment. Later, as they
became toddlers these babies were more able to adapt to self sooth themselves and others who needed it.
Toddlers are very impressionable, especially
in the first three years. They are very observant
and they definitely love to mimic adults. Therefore, teaching children through modeling
is a great way for children to learn how to grow into compassionate children
themselves. You will need to scaffold
them from time to time, offering cues to various situations, but you
will soon note that they will become more considerate of other children's feelings.
As they enter into their preschooler years,
children become more aware of other people’s feelings. When they see a peer upset, they can look back and reflect on their own similar
experiences and try to offer them the same support that
helped them feel better. The children at
this age become more vocal, as they develop a wider range of vocabulary. They often
offer words of encouragement when they see a friend feeling sad or discouraged. Adult’s still need to set a good example on
how to be loving, caring and compassionate human beings, even after this age.
In my opinion,the authors: Poole, Miller, and Booth, really are very knowledgeable in the field of early childhood development. Their research on "empathy" holds true for me. Everything they
have said, I have seen firsthand, thanks to working with children of all
ages. Empathy is a very important
emotion, something all of us should possess. If we teach it to our children when they are
young, then we are giving them the tools necessary to be successful in life.
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